NICKY DYAL = FEAR COACH
coaching for humans and athletes
Alchemize!
Fear into Ecstasy
Paralysis into Action
Indecision into MOMENTUM
Hollow valor stays standing for only so long. By visiting this page, you’ve already crossed through the first gate of an education in fear: acknowledgment.
Culturally, we’re barely equipped to honor the inevitable transitions built into the cycle of life: childhood’s end, parenting, aging and death. We fear AI. We fear ecological and social collapse. We fear our deepest desires. The pace of world events is challenging us to grow even faster, to face our fears more often than ever before.
Fear of losing what is already gone.
Fear of our own vast CONSEQUENCE.
The patriarchal archetype of red-blooded bravery leaves Death as the only option: Kill the enemy or die trying. Kill what you fear, kill fear. All who feel fear carry weakness and shame. Repress, transcend and conquer.
SAINT NIGHTMARE SAYS:
DO NOT KILL FEAR
Thank Fear for illuminating our pessimism and GLOOM.
Thank Fear for keeping us alive.
Thank FEAR for showing us what we love most.
Fear is the most ancient teacher and trustworthy friend. Fear stands stubborn guard just outside the enchanted place our wildest dreams have already come true.
Feeling the fear is how you get in.
Enduring fear is one of the most deeply physically and psychically uncomfortable states our human bodies are asked to entertain.
Fear, when received whole-heartedly, creates powerful and aligned action. Fear left untethered and unloved, takes us nowhere, backwards.
Feeling fear is how you leave outdated, stagnant, boring, under-stimulating, soul-sucking jobs and relationships.
Feeling fear is necessary to survive the trial of being alive in this era of endings and unsung seeds.
Feeling fear brings the relief of ecstasy.
feeling fear midwives creations and dreams.
feeling fear makes you a force of nature.
I stand in offering to walk by your side as you encounter and befriend your Great Fears. To share my knowledge on how to live, breathe and see in the Dark. To distinguish the first signs of dawn.
FACING DEATH SO WE MAY FINALLY LIVE,
Saint Nightmare takes you places you wouldn’t dare go alone.
HELLO, FEARS ⚡️
HELLO, FEARS ⚡️
Let’s discover the Greater Vision hiding behind your fears, and a perfect next step for making your dreams come true.
HELLO, FEARS ⚡️
HELLO, FEARS ⚡️
Carly Pick, Clinical Herbalist. BOULDER, CO
“NO ONE ELSE WOULD DANGLE ME ON THE EDGE WITH SUCH DETERMINATION.”
Anthony Rush, Scientist and Artist. OAKLAND, CA
“You are a liberator and a protector!
An aliveness warrior.
A soul-burst of creaturely expression.
Breathing inspiration to me; a guide; one whom within I see mirrored parts of myself that yearn to freely express and sing their gratitudes upon witnessing you.”
Sofie Lynn, Hair Art. OAKLAND, CA
“Nicky is the one who reaches into the realms of spirit to listen deeply.
She is a mirror and helps me to see my own soul’s path more clearly.
A way shower, a fierce cheerleader and a guide.
An exuberant reflection of life’s mysterious web.
An unapologetic mystic here to shake up systems of oppression within and without.”
Leisa Peterson, Author, The Mindful Millionaire. SEDONA, AZ
“Being in Nicky’s inquisitive presence has led me to becoming a better teacher, leader, and human. Nicky's ability to explore complex subjects with grace and curiosity is one of the many things I enjoy about working with her…wherever she goes, she can't help but inspire people to change their lives for the better. I’m grateful for every conversation we share together.”
Keegan Dimmick. Mesa Rim Reno Site Manager. RENO, NV
“I was in my infancy with my knowledge and understanding of gender and inclusivity policies. While I have more experience dealing with conversations around race and sexuality, the gender diversity conversation was very new to myself, and some of my colleagues, and posed a large opportunity to learn and help turn myself into a safer, more caring person, and at the same time help turn our company into a safer, more caring space. I hoped to find a mentor and space that would allow safe dialogue. To ask for help is to show some ignorance and vulnerability and I hoped to find a space where vulnerability was appreciated. I also wanted to find answers to questions that I didn't feel qualified to answer. What sticks out to me is how important it is for change to feel organic, and sometimes slow. Nicky was patient while also expecting results. While I'm far from perfect I'm confident my elevated awareness and desire to become more aware has help those around me grow and question their own ways of being.”